How often do you set clear goals and intentions and create mind maps or vision boards in order to manifest them into your life, only to find they never happen?
You waited, you were patient, you kept asking, kept stating your intentions and still nothing. You started to doubt yourself and go over what you have asked for,
and affirming ‘have I asked for too much, have I not asked right’ and in the end you give up.
The frustration, blame and confusion can be overwhelming as you go over your rituals of meditating, spending lengthy hours creating your boards, asking the angels
and the universe to assist you in making them happen. However, the biggest block is not our unabated belief in the universe – in assisting us to manifest our
dreams – but belief in ourselves. Notions, such as unworthiness or lacking the belief that we are incapable of “pulling it off”, step in.
If you could think of three things in your life that you have set a goal for, write them down now and sit with them.
Firstly, have they actually happened? If they have not, I want you to read them again and be fully aware of how you feel when you read them. What emotions are
being created and are connecting to these goals as you read them. Do you feel excited, powerful, and positive or do you feel fear, doubt and anxiety. The emotions
that we create around our goals are the power behind our belief in ourselves, in manifesting our dreams. These emotions are the vibration that show us if we are in alignment with our dreams, if we 100% believe in our ability to create them and that we are completely worthy of having them in our lives. If you don’t have 100% faith in your belief, and you feel that you are not 100% worthy, then it will never be brought into your life, as you will never allow it in.
You are your number one fan, cheerleader and motivator of your daily creation of your reality. Only you have the ability to create anything you want and only you can fully believe that anything is possible in your life.
Do you find yourself saying ‘I would love to have more abundance, BUT..’ The ‘but’, and the following statement, is where you create the manifestation and the belief that YOU can actually create it. Self-sabotage is the primary brake pedal when you think about creating the life you want. You have stated such a beautiful exciting truth that you would love more abundance but then your belief, and limiting thoughts, come crashing in and spoil the moment. The ‘but’ and the ‘I don’t think I am good enough’ part or doubt, blame, fear, envy etc. and all the party poopers that quash your dreams that you have been wanting for so long.
Learning to love yourself and truly believe in yourself is powerful. It creates change and it creates the life that you are looking for.
Which do you feel resonates within you with more power ‘I would love to have more money so that I can do the things I want, but I am not sure how I will earn it this month’ or ‘I am worthy of prosperity and it flows into my life with ease, and I choose to allow the extra money into my life so I can have the freedom to choose what I want to do’. You may not know how the money will come into your life, but by stating a powerful intention, you are acting it into your reality.
When you say the second line how do you feel? Again our emotions are our triggers for our flow. Do you feel more excited, more motivated and more connected – because you have made a statement to yourself, that you believe you are capable of creating that into your life?
Words are the contracts you create to yourself every time you speak, and they are the physical proof of your emotions and beliefs being in alignment with yourself. Every word that you speak is your future verbalised into the present. Words are the commitment you make to yourself in creating your reality, based around your self-belief. Choose to use words that reflect the joy, love and respect that you hold for yourself, as if you do not respect and believe in yourself then, no matter how hard you try, your dreams will never come into your life.
Don’t worry about trying to change the life that you have, just focus on changing your mind set and limiting thoughts; in your belief in your ability to create anything in your life, and feel 100% worthy to having it all. You are not being greedy, you are never asking for too much, and you are never ever less worthy of it than any other person.
The universe is an infinite source, as are you. In your own eyes you must see that you are amazing and truly believe in your own self, beyond a shadow of a doubt, and be open to receiving everything you truly desire and deserve for yourself, each and every day.
If you believe, and I mean really BELIEVE, that you can make it happen then everything in your life is going to change, to align with your self-belief.
What do you believe that you are capable of creating in your life? Don’t hold back, think big, believe in big, action big and big is what you shall create!